Potty tale
(problem: doesn’t like the potty)
In one city there lived cars. Each car had its own garage house, where they slept, refueled with gasoline, and went to the toilet. Yes, yes, cars go to the toilet too! After all, at the back of every car there is an exhaust pipe from which black smoke comes out.
Every day the cars ate - they filled up with gasoline, drove around the city all day, played, went to kindergarten (you can insert a description from the child’s life). All day long the cars held back their black exhaust fumes. In the evening, the cars returned to their house-garage, drove into a special room-toilet and released all the exhaust gases there.
Sometimes the little cars couldn't keep the black exhaust fumes out all day, and then they got their rear bumpers dirty. The car moms cleaned their bumpers, and the next time the little cars went straight to their garage and released all the exhaust gases there, and their rear bumper always remained clean.
ps This story is best used before starting potty training. The fairy tale helps explain to the child why it is necessary to poop in the potty/toilet (so as not to dirty the “rear bumper”)
Fairy tale-Anti-dirty
(problem: doesn’t like to wash his face)
About Little Fox, who didn't like to wash himself.
Once upon a time there lived a little fox named Mosya, he had a fluffy red tail, beautiful ears, and black paws. Mosya loved to run through the forest, play tag with hares, and also loved to help his mother carry bags from the store.
The little fox was very smart and cunning. And therefore, when his mother told him: “Mosya, go wash and brush your teeth,” he said: “Aha!”, but did not go to wash, because he really didn’t like it.
Mosya thought that washing his face and brushing his teeth was a very stupid activity. After all, this time can be spent on more exciting things: you can play, run, watch TV, etc.
That's why Mosya didn't wash his face unless his mother forced him to. So I walked around all day with dirty teeth and an unwashed face.
One day the little fox Mosya went for a walk and noticed that everyone was looking at him strangely and moving away from him.
-What are they? – thought Mosya and went on for a walk.
He walks past the river and suddenly sees something terrible in the river! Mosya was so scared that he even shouted: “Monster, monster! There's a monster in the river!"
Everyone around began to bustle and fuss, and the little bunny quickly ran after Mikhail Potapych - he was the leader in the forest.
Mikhail Potapych came to the river and began to look for the monster, but found no one.
-Who made the noise? Who saw the monster? - he asked.
-It’s him, he’s the little fox Mosya! - exclaimed the little bunny.
As soon as Mikhail Potapych saw Mosya, he immediately guessed what was going on. (Did you guess it?)
“Come to me, Mosya,” asked Mikhail Potapych, standing on the river bank.
Mosya approached carefully and again saw this terrible black monster in the river and screamed. And all the other animals also saw this monster, but for some reason they were not afraid, but only laughed at the frightened Mosey.
“Oh, you dirty little thing, you just scared everyone in vain...” Mikhail Potapych sighed and left to do important business in the forest.
And everyone around also began to disperse, some laughing, others shaking their heads.
There was only one little fox left, Mosya, on the shore and a monster looking at him from the river.
What kind of monster do you think Mosya saw in the river? Why was he called dirty? How can Mosya defeat this monster?
“Like the hare and the tortoise ran a race”
One day a hare was pulling a carrot in someone's garden and gnawing on it with his big teeth. And then he saw a turtle slowly crawling past him along the path. Everyone knows that hares run very fast, so he was very surprised how it was possible to move so slowly.
He has already eaten three carrots, but the turtle has only moved a few centimeters. Laughter and nothing more!
The turtle stopped, looked at the hare and thought: “What long legs he has! Can you really keep up with something like that? But he’s stupid, and I’m smarter.”
- Apparently, you don’t know, hare, that if you really want something, it will definitely come true! - the turtle said to the hare. - Let’s make a bet: we’ll run a race through the gardens and meadow straight to the river. Whoever comes running first is the winner!
The hare laughed so long at the tortoise's proposal that his stomach even hurt.
- Do you, turtle, really hope to overtake me? Well, this is just funny! This will never happen.
“Let’s check it out,” the turtle said calmly.
They stood on the same line at the start and ran. The tortoise, of course, immediately lagged behind the hare. She also slowly crawled along the path, and the heels of the hare flashed somewhere in the distance.
And the hare ran, ran through the vegetable gardens and suddenly saw a greenhouse.
“I’ll look into it for a minute,” the hare decided.
He went into the greenhouse, and there were sweet carrots, cabbage, and lettuce growing there. In general, there were some goodies there. The hare began to eat sweet carrots and everything that grew in the greenhouse. I ate, as they say, from my belly. And he felt so sleepy after such a hearty lunch that he decided to lie down and take a nap.
He was sleeping so soundly that he didn’t even hear the turtle crawl past the greenhouse. It was already getting dark when the hare woke up. He jumped up headlong and rushed to the river. And there, on the shore, the turtle was already sitting and smiling.
When he ran up to her, the turtle said to him:
- You lost your bet, hare, and I won. Boasting, gluttony and laziness are bad helpers!
Do you agree with this, (name)? Bragging and being lazy is bad.
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Bedtime story
(problem: can’t get me to sleep at night)
Once upon a time he lived in the village of Petya-Petushok. Petechka loved to crow in the morning and sing songs to the sun. There was nothing more fun in the world for Petya than this.
Petya the Cockerel plays all day long, sings songs to the Sun, and when evening comes, he becomes sad. Our Petya the Cockerel doesn’t like the night, he doesn’t like to sleep.
As soon as the Sun begins to set, Petechka immediately becomes sad and cries:
-Ko-ko-ko, I don’t want to go to sleep! Ko-ko-ko, I want to crow songs.
And Petya the Cockerel cried so bitterly one day that the Sun decided to take pity on him. The sun did not go to bed, and decided that it would shine both day and night for Petechka.
Petya was so happy, he crowed and played happily all day and all night.
But here’s the thing: the Sun brightened the night, and Petya crowed, and the next day the Sun stopped shining, and Petya-Cockerel lost his voice.
Why do you think this happened? That's right, because everyone needs to rest and gain strength. And we gain the best strength in our sleep.
Petya-Petushek understood that he and Sunny needed to sleep. And night came, the Sun rested, Petechka also got some sleep. And the next morning the Sun shone as before, and Petya the Cockerel crowed even louder.
Fairy tale-Anticapriculla
(problem: requires toys in the store)
Once upon a time there lived a girl, her name was Mashenka. She was a wonderful girl: she was very cheerful, loved to play with toys and help her mother vacuum.
Mashenka also loved toy horses more than anything in the world. Every time Mashenka went to the store with her mom or dad, she always asked to buy her a new horse. And every time her mother asked her for something, Mashenka asked: “Will you buy me a new horse?”
Very soon Mashenka had a lot of different horses. She had small horses and large ones, and stickers with horses, and bags, and even shoes with horses. But Mashenka never had enough horses, she wanted more and more.
Sometimes it happened that mom and dad told Mashenka in the store: “We can’t buy you a new horse. You already have a lot of horses, why do you need another one? And we don’t have much money left, we’ll buy you a horse next time!” This upset Mashenka very much, she began to cry loudly and shout: “Buy me a horse! I want a horse! (insert specific behavior of the child) And the parents, no matter how hard they tried, could not calm their daughter down. The more they persuaded her, the louder Mashenka began to scream, stamp her feet, etc. And then the parents still bought Mashenka another horse to calm her down. And Mashenka was happy with the new toy all the way home, and as soon as they arrived home, Mashenka forgot the new horse. And all the toy horses were surprised: “Why does she need us if she doesn’t play with us?!”
Over time, Masha began to ask to buy her the biggest and most beautiful horses, and such horses were very expensive. And mom and dad had to work more and more to earn more money so that they would have enough for food and horses.
One day, when her mother and Mashenka were in the store, the girl saw a beautiful horse and began to ask her mother: “Buy, buy, buy!”
“If I buy you a horse, then we won’t have enough money for food and we won’t have anything to eat for dinner,” my mother answered.
- Well, mom, look what a horse, I want it. She’s so beautiful, mom, buy it!” Mashenka began to whine and cry.
Mom sighed heavily and allowed us to buy a horse, and in addition to the horse, they also bought some bread from the store.
Mashenka was very happy with the horse, played with it all the way, even played with it a little at home, and then dad came home from work and they sat down to dinner. Mom set the table: she put a plate and a cup of tea for everyone, and put several pieces of bread on the plates.
“Where is dinner?” Mashenka was surprised;
“That’s all I could buy with the money that was left after buying the horse.” “Eat some bread, daughter, and drink the tea while it’s hot,” my mother answered.
“Masha, we have good news for you,” said dad, “mom and I found a new job, for which we will be paid a lot, a lot of money, and we will be able to buy you horses and will have enough money to eat.” For this job, my mother and I will need to go on a business trip for a week, and you will be home alone. You're a big girl now and you can handle it on your own.
The next day, mom and dad left on a business trip right in the morning. Mashenka played with the horses until lunch, then drew and watched cartoons. And by evening, Masha became bored without her mom and dad, because there was no one to read her a fairy tale. In the evening Mashenka began to go to bed, and there was no one to kiss her before bed.
The next day Mashenka was very sad without her mom and dad, but she understood that her parents had left on important matters to earn money for her horses. In order not to be bored, Mashenka decided to give her parents a gift: to clean up the house. She cleaned the kitchen and put everything in its place in the hallway. Then the girl began to clean her room and sort out her mountain of horses. Mashenka was even surprised at how many horses she had. She didn’t even remember most of them, and the horses were all wrinkled and covered in dust from lying in a heap.
Until the evening, Masha sorted out all her horses. She ended up with one large box of stickers, five large boxes of horse toys, and another half of the mountain of horses that remained unsorted. Mashenka looked at all this and said: “Well, what should I do with them? Where should I put them?” Without coming up with anything, Masha went to bed alone, without her mom and dad.
And the next day Masha missed her mom and dad so much, she wanted to see them, hug and kiss them so much that she even cried. And Mashenka cried so bitterly that even the horses felt sorry for her, and they decided to take pity on her.
- Don’t cry Mashenka, your parents will be back in a few days. They left on important matters. They need to earn money for new horses. You want new horses, right? – the newest horse asked Mashenka.
“I want to,” answered Mashenka, “but I want mom and dad to be at home!”
- Mashenka, don’t be upset, you better think about what will happen when they return! Your parents will come and buy you a new horse. Isn't that what you want?
Masha thought and said: “No, not this! I don't want a new horse! I want mom and dad to be at home. I want dad to play with me in the evenings, and for mom to read fairy tales before bed. I want mom and dad to never leave!”
-How so? Don't you love us horses anymore? Why then did you ask our parents to buy us so much? After all, all the money that mom and dad earned went to us,” the horse answered in surprise.
“But it’s true…” Masha answered thoughtfully, “if it weren’t for the horses, then mom and dad wouldn’t have left...
-Do you really need your parents more than we, horses? - the horse was offended.
-Certainly! After all, you are just toys, you are fun and interesting, but you will never kiss me good night, read me a fairy tale, or hug me. Why did I ask my parents to buy so many of you? I don’t need so many horses, I hardly even play with you. I only need a few horses to play with.
Having said this, Masha realized something. She realized that nothing could be more important than mom and dad. And toys are also not important at all if there are no parents nearby.
And Mashenka decided to give mom and dad a real gift. She took the first box of horses and took it to the store. The sellers were very surprised, but allowed Mashenka to return all the toys and gave her the money for them.
All the remaining days before her parents arrived, Mashenka took her horses back to the store. And for them they gave her a whole box of money.
Mashenka kept a few horses for herself, because the children needed toys, and returned the rest to the store. And in her room there was much more space for games, and she still had the most necessary and beloved horses.
And in the evening the tired parents arrived. Mashenka was very happy with them, and mom and dad immediately started kissing and hugging her, because they also missed their daughter.
-Mommy, daddy! I was so sad without you! Please don't be gone for so long! - said Mashenka.
- Now we won’t have to leave for a long time, because we have earned a lot of money. Don't be upset! Tomorrow we’ll go to the store and choose a new horse for you,” said dad.
“I don’t need horses anymore, I need you,” said Mashenka, and seeing the surprise on her parents’ faces, she smiled and ran to her room. Masha brought the entire box with the money that they gave her for the horses and said, “Here, this is all for you!” I returned all the horses to the store, I don’t need them. I need my mom and dad! And now we have a lot of money, and we can spend all our time together, and you won’t have to work for a long time!
“You are our treasure!” Mom exclaimed.
“No, you are my most precious treasure, which no toys can replace!” answered Mashenka and hugged mom and dad again.
And Mashenka didn’t notice how happily her mom and dad were smiling, because they themselves so wanted to spend all their time next to their daughter, and not just earn money for horses.
Alphabet of your body
R - arm - a paired upper limb of a person, consisting of several sections: hand, wrist, forearm, elbow, shoulder. What is it for?
What do you need your hand for? Think about it a little. You use your hand to put on your boots. And she will help you eat the porridge and drink the juice. Can you help Granny Threads wind everything into a ball? And pull the boy by the nose, and the girl by the braid. And without fingers you won't be able to pick your nose. In general, take care of your hands! Try not to break them! After all, it’s really hard to play with a broken arm. And be careful with fire! And with hot water! Well, take sharp objects out of sight! And the hands will say thank you. They will help you. You can do everything in the world that you can dream of. |
N - Leg - a paired lower limb of a person, consisting of several sections: foot, ankle, lower leg, knee, thigh. What do you need it for?
Jump, run and gallop, or just kick the ball. Legs are very important. Everyone needs legs. You can measure puddles with them, Or run into the distance from the cold. Jump over a rolling pin, or bounce them in a dance. You need to take care of your feet. Protect them from diseases. Do not freeze them in winter, douse them with water in summer. |
C - The heart is the main organ of the circulatory system, located in the chest on the left, divided into two halves. It is a muscular organ that pumps blood throughout your body. What do you need it for?
We have a heart in our chest. This organ is top class! It drives our blood, It gives us love. Like a car without an engine, it won't go anywhere. So you and I are without a heart, neither here nor there. |
G - The stomach is a hollow muscular organ. Responsible for food processing. What do you need it for?
After chewing a piece of bun, you swallow it yourself. It gets into the stomach to swim there in the juice. This juice is not at all simple, you can’t wash it down with water. There are a lot of enzymes there, all the food goes there. Love your stomach, feed it well. Don’t chew any nasty stuff, don’t swallow it, just spit it right away. |
Since my daughter liked her mother’s creativity so much, I decided to come up with instructive stories on various topics in advance. They are not finished yet, I am constantly adding something new, or removing some phrases. Perhaps, when the time comes to read them to my daughter, there will be nothing left of the original version... I really hope that when the time comes, such stories will help both her and me in communicating with each other, and we will overcome the difficult transitional age with ease.
Fairytale-friend
(problem: attracts attention with negative behavior)
Today I will tell you a story about one of my friends. This is a Cactus. Yes, yes, exactly, an ordinary cactus. Once upon a time, Cactus was very small and lived in a flower shop. Customers often came to the store, looked at the plants, admired them, and took them home.
The cactus also really wanted to be looked at and taken home as soon as possible. But for some reason, almost all the buyers passed by him. This made him very upset and angry. The cactus decided to become special. He looked around: some plants had large and small colorful flowers, but the Cactus had no flowers; others had carved, large leaves, but the Cactus had no leaves; others had long, slender trunks, and Cactus, it’s scary to say, didn’t even have a trunk, it was round like a green ball and that’s all. The cactus was completely upset, frowned, and angry. He just wanted to shout: “Someone look at me! I'm here! I’m very cool and interesting!”
And just when he thought that he was about to burst from frustration, a thorn suddenly grew on him! The cactus looked around and was terribly happy: no one else had thorns! And the Cactus began to diligently grow more and more thorns, and soon it began to look like a hedgehog. A couple of times the plants even paid attention to it and said that the spines were very interesting. But this was not enough for Cactus, he wanted everyone to look at him always. Then he began to try to make the spines even longer. And so they became so long that they began to touch neighboring plants. What started here! Everyone began to talk, be indignant, ask, demand that Cactus remove his thorns. Imagine, even among themselves the plants talked about the Cactus. He was incredibly happy! So what, let them say mostly unpleasant, bad things, but about him, about him.
But soon the plants, wounded by thorns, began to wither, and the Seller moved them to another place. The cactus was left all alone. No one spoke to him or about him anymore, no one looked at him anymore. Even Buyers were afraid to approach him because of his thorns. The cactus became completely sad, saddened, he felt very bad and lonely.
One day, a Girl came to a flower shop, she looked at all the plants, but she didn’t like any of them. And then she saw Cactus: “Wow! How interesting,” she exclaimed, running up to him. But then the little customer screamed in pain, pricking herself on sharp thorns. The girl even cried out of frustration: “And I really wanted to make friends with him, he’s so interesting, cute, sweet, oh, if it weren’t for these thorns...” Cactus was very surprised: “Is she really talking about me?!” It turns out that it’s nice to hear that you are being praised and not scolded. Oh, will this sweet Girl really leave now? These are all stupid thorns, I didn’t do it on purpose, I didn’t mean to!”
As soon as he thought this, his thorns began to fall off, and soon only small needles, soft as fluff, remained. The girl was very happy about this, touched them lightly, and, of course, took the Cactus home.
Since then they became best friends. The girl told Cactus all her secrets and took care of him. And Cactus took care of her, he no longer grew thorns so as not to hurt her, but on the contrary, he tried very hard to receive her praise and kind attention.
Many years have passed, that Girl has already grown up, but her friend Cactus still stands in her home in the most visible, convenient place and delights all guests with her extraordinary flower.
"Sandbox"
Several kids were playing in the sandbox. Everyone had their own spatula, bucket, molds in the shape of stars, shells, and carrots. The kids filled the molds with sand, then turned them over and gently tapped them with a spatula. Then they opened the mold and they got a shortbread cake. They were so happy when beautiful sand figures came out of the molds.
But then a very small boy climbed into the sandbox. His mother forgot to take a shovel, a bucket and sand molds for a walk. And the baby also wanted to play with everyone. He took one mold in the shape of a shell, but the owner of this shell took it away from the baby. Then the kid took someone’s shovel and just wanted to dig in the sand. But the other boy also took the spatula from him. The baby began to cry, he felt so upset that no one wanted to play with him.
(Your child’s name) saw the little boy crying and gave him his bucket and shovel. The kid began to smile and hastily pour sand into the bucket - he was afraid that his toys would soon be taken away from him. But (name) is a kind boy. He did not take away the toys, but began to play with his new friend.
If you are not greedy, then every child will have many friends.